Letting Go Of The Past
July 3rd, 2009
Have you heard people say - You can lose someone if they are yours. If they were never yours, you never lost them. Some of us are obsessed with our ex lover and cannot get over it. Letting go of the past is the best thing for you.
Yes it is a loss and you can get depressed. Even going through the break up and after that is a difficult time. It is very traumatic and the pain is very intense as it is a matter of heart.
It does not matter if you still know the person, just let it go. Its your past, get the person out of your mind and heart. Otherwise you are just drowning yourself in sorrow and grief.
Cry- just cry your heart out and get it out. Tears actually help you feel better by making your heart light. Do not suppress your tears, let the flow.
Hold on to your religious believes. Knowing that there is Something greater and more significant than your pain and suffering. There is something charismatic in this. For every time you place your grieve in the Healer’s Hands, some unexplained good come across your way. Be on the look out for the good and positive things that comes your way in the form of support and love.
Focus on yourself and not the other person. Pity yourself and find happiness within you. Fill up your loneliness with your activities and work. You have it in you and can make it happen.
If there are moments when the pain comes back, be confident and stand up to it. Live the present moment and see the beautiful world around. Keep away from past memories.
Its godly to forgive and its best to forgive the other person. Forgiveness and being generous in your dealings is the best way to get out of your pain.
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